I didn't mean to imply all singles are losers...some make a choice to be single and that's really cool. If you're free of wt, being older and single is often a good thing. I remember the middle age divorced empty,nesters at my old work used to have a ball traveling and enriching themselves after decades of slaving after kids. In the wt, middle age divorcees don't get to do that and are generally stuck without opportunities.
As my non Jw dad often observed, a lot of JWs are losers...sad they've been made this way by the wt.